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  1. Mental Health Awareness Month

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    At Mabel Wadsworth Center, our interns are responsible for updating the bulletin board in our waiting room once a month. In case you haven’t had the chance to visit us recently, you can read about our bulletin board here.  This post is by our intern, Aiden Ciaffaglione, a student at the University of Maine.

    What is Mental Health Awareness Month?

    Mental Health Awareness Month was created in 1949 by Mental Health America. May was designated MHAM in order to bring light to the mental illness that people in our communities face, while also trying to break the stigma around mental health and it’s treatment.  Your mental health is extremely important not only for your daily performance, but also for your physical health.

    Do you know the Stats around Mental Health?

    • 1 in 5 people will be impacted by mental illness in their lifetime
    • 60 million people in the U.S. alone are living with and reacting to mental illness daily
    • 50% of mental health conditions start at age 14, and 75% by 24
    • 1 in 25 adults in the U.S.—9.8 million experiences a serious mental illness in a given year that substantially interferes with or limits one or more major life activities

    Ways You Can Better Your Mental Health This May & Everyday!

    1. Reduce Your Daily Stress

    Reducing your daily stress will allow your body to work at its fullest potential while avoiding long-term health problems. You can reduce your stress by scheduling breaks away from work to go on walks, spending time with those who make you feel affirmed and loved, getting enough sleep, and scheduling some alone time! The most important part about stress relief is understanding that saying no and taking time away for yourself is not selfish, it’s selfless and important for your physical and mental health.

    2. Take Care of Your Bodies Needs

    If your body cannot function physically, it will not be able to function mentally! It is incredibly important that you not only listen to what your mental health needs, but also the things that your body requires to function at its fullest potential. Some ways to do this include scheduling in your meal and snack times, keeping up with your physical and environmental hygiene, getting enough sleep and taking naps, not drinking a lot of caffeine or eating unhealthy foods, and taking your medications as required.

    3. Reach out to a Mental Health Professional

    Sometimes mental health can become overwhelming and talking it out with friends may not be enough. It is absolutely okay for you to reach out for professional help when you are struggling or just want someone to talk to! Mental Health professionals are great resources for understanding your mental health and reflecting on things you may not have noticed. Whether it be to let out stress, vent, or request a referral for medication, mental health professionals will be a huge help in preserving and improving your mental health. If you are looking for a mental health professional in the Bangor area, the Mabel Wadsworth Center now offers these services to their clients. If you are interested please call the center to book an appointment!

    4. Treat Yourself

    Life can get tough and you may find yourself overwhelmed with work or life in general; so it is incredibly important that you not only take care of your needs, but also treat yourself to a reward every once in a while. This might be you going out to dinner with friends, watching your guilty pleasure movie, or eating chocolate; the important part is that you show yourself some self-love and appreciate the effort you put into your daily schedule. If you don’t treat yourself, then who will!

  2. Transgender Day of Visibility 2019

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    TDOV was created in 2009 by transgender rights activist Rachel Crandall, in response to the lack of transgender focused holidays within the LGBTQ+ community. Prior to the development of TDOV, the only transgender related holiday was the Transgender Day of Remembrance, an annual event held to mourn the transgender lives lost from transphobic hate crimes. Crandall felt that the community needed a pride holiday dedicated to transgender people to celebrate their existence and accomplishments, rather than just mourning the lives that have been lost.

    The annual holiday is held on March 31st, when members of the transgender community are encouraged to wear their pride flags and proudly exist in spaces that usually exclude or erase them. Allies are also encouraged to show their support of the community, in order to develop a larger acceptance of transgender people in our communities.

    TDOV is incredibly important for the transgender community because not only does it allow them to exist as their authentic selves in public spaces, but it allows transgender activists to shine a light on transphobic related discrimination and hate crimes. Some issues that often do not receive public coverage include the impacts of transphobia on mental health, access to education, healthcare, work, and other resources.

    Below are just a few of the statistics focusing on the impacts of an exclusive environment on the transgender community:

    • More than three-quarters (77%) of respondents who were out or perceived as transgender in K–12 had one or more negative experiences, such as being verbally harassed, prohibited from dressing according to their gender identity, or physically or sexually assaulted.
    • Thirty percent (30%) of respondents who had a job in the past year reported being fired, denied a promotion, or experiencing some other form of mistreatment in the workplace related to their gender identity or expression, such as being harassed or attacked.
    • More than three-quarters (77%) of respondents who had a job in the past year took steps to avoid mistreatment in the workplace, such as hiding or delaying their gender transition or quitting their job.
    • Of current service members (military) whose leadership or commanding officers knew or thought they were transgender, nearly one-quarter (23%) said that actions were taken to discharge them.
    • More than two-thirds (71%) of respondents who have attempted suicide have done so more than once in their lifetime, with 46% of those who have attempted suicide reporting three or more attempts.

    Source:  2015 “U.S. Transgender Survey” from The National Center for Transgender Equality

    In order to improve these statistics we must continue to celebrate TDOV, so that the transgender and gender non-conforming members of our community feel include, appreciated, and celebrated in any space. No one should ever feel unwelcome based on their identity.

    Ways that You can be an Ally to the Transgender Community!

    1. Practice, learn, and expose yourself to pronouns!
    2. Educate yourself on different LGBTQ+ identities (gender, sexuality, romantic identities)
    3. Accept that there is no “right” way to transition and avoid “helpful tips” that could progress someone’s transition
    4. Accompany a transgender person to the bathroom if they feel unsafe
    5. Do not assume someone is transgender based on their appearance and be careful disclosing someone’s identity (not everyone is comfortable being publicly out)
    6. Do not panic over misgendering someone – correct your mistake and move on!
    7. Correct other people’s misuse of pronouns in the absence of the transgender person
    8. Do not ask a transgender person about their genitals, surgical status, or sex life. Let them bring it up themselves if they feel comfortable!
    9. Show up to events that support transgender rights
    10. Donate to your local transgender advocacy groups or volunteer

    Upcoming TDOV Events

    MaineTransNet: March 30th, 5:30-7:30, Bangor City Hall

    Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!