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  1. Historical Parallels Between Witch Hunts and the Anti-Abortion Movement

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    by Nnenaya Bloomstein (she/her) Williams College Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies student and Mabel Wadsworth Center intern

     

    Today in the United States, actions are taken every day by politicians and right-wing activists to restrict access to abortion. One of the most recent major actions was taken by politicians in the state of Louisiana who filed a lawsuit against the FDA in an attempt to prevent the mailing of the drug mifepristone. If passed, this law would require in-person appointments to receive this medication, even in states where there are no laws against abortion. It’s important to note that medication abortion provided through the mail has been proven to be safe and effective (Grossman, Raifman, and Morris 2024). Although the Supreme Court halted this ruling, sending it back for review, this action has extremely dangerous implications, one of which is a full abortion ban across the United States (Serwer 2026). As most who advocate for access to abortion know, the anti-abortion movement has nothing to do with protecting the lives of those who can become pregnant. Instead, it’s about controlling these bodies and in doing so forcing them to conform to an established norm. Part of this norm is the idea that people with uteruses are biologically predetermined to be mothers. While rhetorics like this can often feel as if we are living in an unprecedented time of attacks on access to reproductive rights, this is far from the truth. Attitudes towards abortions have shifted greatly across time, and anti-abortion sentiments are simultaneously new and not unheard of. Today I’d like to take us back roughly 500 years ago to think about witches. Although they aren’t often thought of as having any connection to reproductive justice, the witchcraft trials and hunts of the early modern period can teach us a great deal about how women’s bodies have been managed throughout history and how witches, just by existing, resisted the attacks on their bodies. 

    The early modern period, characteristically thought of as the era between the 1500s and 1800s, was a time in which witchcraft accusations and witch-hunts were rampant throughout western Europe and the United States due to colonization (Weisner 2008). The targets of these witchcraft prosecutions varied regionally and throughout time. But to put it generally, witches were people who acted in out-of-character ways, people who caused harm to others, people who kept strange pets, and, if you could prove it, people who made pacts with the devil. While anyone could be accused of witchcraft, gender identity also became an important qualifier for this accusation. As most people know, the majority of those accused of being witches were women. Part of the reason why women were more likely to be accused had to do with the ways women’s behaviors were regulated by both political and religious powers in the early modern period (Weisner 2008). 

    The most widely supported belief about women and their sexualities was that they were inherently sinful. Because women had such strong sinful tendencies, they were expected to be pure, chaste, innocent, and above all else to be submissive wives and mothers (Gowing 2012). As a result, when women became the targets of witchcraft accusations, it had less to do with them actually perpetrating harmful magic and more to do with their lack of conformance to the idealized femininity of the early modern period. The story of Elizabeth Frauncis, a witch in the first ever published witchcraft pamphlet, supports the significance of conformity for early modern women. After having sex with a man outside of marriage, her first sinful act, she becomes pregnant. But when this man realizes that she is pregnant, he leaves her and Elizabeth is said to have “destroyed the child forthwyth” (Gibson 2000). Meaning, in very judgmental old English terms, that she used the power she was given from Satan to have an abortion. In this, and all of the crimes Elizabeth commits, she fails to conform to the femininity that was expected of her. She is not only impure and sexually lewd, she fails at being a mother, the thing that was most important to early modern women’s identities. This pamphlet makes it clear that Elizabeth’s true crimes are choosing what she wanted to do with her body and in doing so, deviating from normative femininity. 

    Punishing women for doing things for their bodies that are not considered “normal” sounds eerily familiar. Despite coming a long way from the rigid expectations for early modern women, contemporary women and everyone who can give birth, are still judged within the same framework that places value on motherhood and child-bearing above all else. Despite there being so many more opportunities for women, the importance of motherhood feels deeply entrenched into our identities. As women gain more control over their lives and choose to engage in practices that do not align with the idealized mother and wife, it seems as though our reproductive rights are only diminishing. Rather than being celebrated for our independence, women across the country are being punished just as Elizabeth and the thousands of other witches were in early modern times. This punishment reinforces the idea that motherhood is an essential part of womanhood and that our bodies and our choices are not truly ours.

    While there are many ways to analyze and understand witches throughout history, where I think we can find the most power in their history is by thinking about how witches are connected to our everyday lives. The way they were treated was not just about protecting communities and weeding the devil out of society; it was about controlling women’s choices and to ensure they remained submissive wives. The anti-abortion movement, like the witchcraft prosecutions of the early modern period, relies on the belief that women’s bodies and those perceived as women should be governed by others rather than by the people who inhabit them. While women like Elizabeth were imprisoned for their defiance, their resistance to their roles means so much more than their punishment. Their stories are reminders that sexual deviance and queerness have always existed in many different forms. Understanding this history allows us to see contemporary attacks on reproductive rights not as isolated political disputes, but as part of an enduring effort to control who gets to make decisions about their own body.

     

     

     

     

    References

    Gibson, Marion, “The Examination and Confession of certaine Wytches (1566).” In Early Modern Witches: Witchcraft Cases in Contemporary Writing. Psychology Press, 2000. 

    Laura, Gowing, ‘Women’s Bodies and the Making of Sex in Seventeenth-Century England,’ Signs: Journal of Women in Culture and Society, 37:4 (2012): 813-822. https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/epdf/10.1086/664469

    Serwer, Adam. “So Much for Leaving Abortion Up to the States.” In The Atlantic, 2026. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/06/mifepristone-abortion-pill-access-impossible/687519/

    Wiesner, Merry E. “Ideas and Laws Regarding Women.” In Women and Gender in Early Modern Europe. Cambridge University Press, 2008. https://archive.org/details/womengenderinear0000wies

    Grossman D, Raifman S, and Morris N. “Mail-Order Pharmacy Dispensing of Mifepristone for Medication Abortion After In-Person Screening.” In JAMA Internal Medicine, 184:8 (2024): 873-881. https://www.ansirh.org/research/research/abortion-pills-mail-are-safe-and-effective-study-shows

  2. Mabel Wadsworth Center Statement Regarding Fourth Anniversary of Dobbs Decision

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    Four years ago today, the Supreme Court of the United States passed down a ruling that paved the way for states to deny the personhood and humanity of roughly half the population. Commonly referred to as the “Dobbs decision,” SCOTUS’ ruling removed the federal protections of Roe, allowing states to implement draconian abortion bans and restrictions. Any attempt to restrict, limit, or prevent abortion access and bodily autonomy is draconian.

    We must hold two truths about Roe–it was never enough, and its loss has been harrowing. Even with the protections of Roe, abortion access was not guaranteed for many across this country, and harmful restrictions abounded. Roe was the floor, not the ceiling, and it was a floor that failed to hold up many. The protections of Roe also prevented states from implementing full abortion bans, and gave many in need of abortion care a path forward. We hold these truths of importance and incomplete protection with our grief.

    Anti-abortion legislation and attitudes are always about control. They are rooted in misogyny and have a ripple effect that harms women and all people of marginalized genders, including nonbinary people, transgender men, and others that may need abortion care. Anti-abortion extremism goes hand-in-hand with anti-trans and anti-queer extremism–it is a Venn diagram that is a circle. We see this in state legislatures that restrict abortion access alongside restricting trans rights. Patriarchal control is far-reaching and suffocating.

    On this anniversary, we do not only mourn the loss of rights for those who need abortion care, though that is enough to mourn in its own right. We also mourn for those whose lives have been willingly and deliberately taken by abortion bans. Josseli Barnica. Amber Nicole Thurman. Nevaeh Crain. Candi Miller. These are only a handful of the names we know, and do not account for the many names we may never know. These were women with lives and dreams and hopes. Their families are left to mourn them because their lives were devalued by anti-abortion laws and politicians.

    Maine laws may be protective of abortion access, but that does not mean that we can sit back. “Leaving it to the states” was never going to be enough for anti-abortion extremists, and we continue to face federal attacks on abortion rights. Additionally, Mainers being protected isn’t enough–where you live should not determine your rights or access to the care you know you need. Our friends in Texas and other banned states deserve every freedom we have and more. Abortion is normal, common, essential care, and while we mourn, we also fight.

  3. (Actual) Threats to Girls’ Sports (hint–it’s not trans people)

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    by Aspen Ruhlin (they/them) Mabel Wadsworth Center Community Engagement Manager

    Content Warning: this blog includes mentions of sexual violence, specifically in regards to minors. Details are not discussed, but we understand this can still be triggering to other victims/survivors of sexual violence and assault. If you are a victim/survivor, please know that we believe you. You are deserving of compassion, support, and safety. If you need support as a victim/survivor yourself or as a loved one of someone who was assaulted, regardless of when it happened, you can call our friends at Rape Response Services (Bangor area) or Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault (entire state) at 1-800-871-7741. You are not alone.

    While I know myself to be a nonbinary trans person now, I had not yet figured out that piece of my identity as a high schooler. As such, I lived my life as a typical cis teen girl, and as a freshman and sophomore, played on my school’s field hockey team. It was an intensive sport that I still carry both memories of and injuries from almost two decades later: feeling like I was flying as I ran full tilt down the field; the solid thunk as I hit a drive; the hard and heavy ball smashing straight into my exposed ankle. The only athletes at our school that ran more than us were the cross country and track and field kids. Our team didn’t have a great record when it came to wins, but we had a blast and were rugged, strong teens because of the nature of the sport.

    Like most, if not all, high school field hockey teams in Maine, our school only had a girls’ team. Our coaches let us know that because of this and Title IX rules, boys were allowed to try out and potentially play, both at our school and the ones we would play against. We weren’t concerned. In fact, we were hopeful, and immediately sought to recruit a boy or two to try out. This wasn’t because we thought having boys on the team would give us an advantage that would turn around our losing streak (we had gym class with these boys and, to put it as kindly as possible, did not think highly of their strength, stamina, or speed as a general rule). This was because of our uniforms. The standard uniform for girls’ and women’s field hockey is a skirt or kilt. We all hated them. We figured that if we could recruit a boy onto the team, they would never make him wear a skirt, and then to make the whole team uniform aligned, we would get to wear shorts. Our uniform kilts, which were really just black pleated wrap skirts, were short enough that we couldn’t wear them at school without getting a dress code violation. We had to buy our own under shorts to avoid flashing onlookers during games.

    The idea of boys playing with or against us wasn’t a concern, nor was the idea of any trans girls playing. Skill and strength in field hockey or any other sport comes from practice, not chromosomes or genitalia. The cis teen girls playing high school sports aren’t delicate flowers that need to be protected from their trans teammates and opponents–but they do need protection.

    During and after my time as an athlete in high school, both myself and my teen girl classmates were subjected to gendered violence and mistreatment. Some of this looked like the typical prioritization of boys’ sports in our culture, whether in the form of distribution of funding or just how much attention was focused on the boys’ teams vs. the girls’ teams. Some of this looked like the consistent degradation of women and girls by my teen boy peers that went unchallenged by teachers, like when a boy in my class argued that a woman could never be president of the United States because, “once a month, she’d set off the nukes.” Some of this looked like a dress code that existed to control, shame, and sexualize the bodies of teen girls with the argument that we “couldn’t risk distracting the boys.” Some of this looked like the history teacher who, a handful of years after I graduated, was found to be a predator who had been sexually harassing and stalking a 15-year-old student of his. When he committed suicide to evade the consequences, she was blamed and bullied to the point of transferring schools. Some of this looked like being the victim of two different sexually abusive relationships, one of which occurred while I was still a field hockey player. Like many, my physical strength was not enough to prevent me from being assaulted by someone I thought I could trust.

    I was not the only teen girl in my school subjected to gendered violence and mistreatment. I wasn’t even the only one on my field hockey team. Not a single one of us subjected to gendered violence and mistreatment faced harm at the hands of a trans person. Every single one of us who faced harm were harmed by cis boys and men. That doesn’t mean trans people are incapable of causing harm–trans people are people, and people in general can cause harm, intentionally or otherwise. It is very clear, however, whether we look at the anecdotal experiences of people like myself who actually played girls’ high school sports or look at the data and research that the presence of trans girls and women in sports is not a threat. Teen girls, trans and cis alike, face many threats, but inclusion isn’t one of them.

    If you advocate against allowing trans girls to play school sports, I know that you do not care about girls sports or the general safety of cis women and girls. Not think. Know. Transphobia is a tool of patriarchal violence that functions to harm trans people first and cis people second. It works alongside racism and white supremacy to create a narrow vision of girlhood and womanhood that is small, fragile, and weak. I will give some grace and say that, if you are not knowledgeable about women’s and girls’ sports and/or trans people, I can understand being misled into thinking there may be legitimate safety concerns, to a certain degree. With that grace given, it’s also important to be critical of any call to further restrict and scapegoat a marginalized group. It is far too easy for far too many people to immediately accept excluding and fearing trans people without question.

    Trans people are not the enemy. We are not the monster hiding under your bed or in a dark alley. We are part of your community. We are your neighbors, cashiers, family members, librarians, and more. Trans people are a marginalized group far more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators of violence. Trans girls and women deserve to be honored for who they know themselves to be in every sphere of life, and the notion that cis women and girls need to be “protected” from them is one rooted in the devaluation of trans and cis women and girls alike. Seeking to exclude trans girls from school sports is transphobic and misogynistic, plain and simple.

  4. Book Report: Becca Rea-Tucker’s “The Abortion Companion”

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    by Sofia Herrington (she/her), Mabel Wadsworth Center intern


    Mabel Wadsworth Center was lucky enough to have multiple copies of Becca Rea-Tucker’s The Abortion Companion: an Affirming Handbook for Your Choice and Your Journey donated to give to patients and keep in our waiting room. Instead of just focusing on how I felt reading through this amazing book, I thought it made more sense to let this powerful piece of writing speak for itself by sharing some of my favorite quotes in the graphics below.

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    “Whether your abortion was yesterday, thirty years ago, or hasn’t happened yet, you and your feelings are allowed to be on your own timeline.”

     

     

     

     

    “Anger or appreciation. Relief or grief. But our abortion experiences aren’t one-dimensional, and feelings often change over time. There’s no timeline for having feelings about our abortions.”

     

     

     

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    “Pro-choice isn’t meaningful if there isn’t actually a choice.”

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    “We have always had and will always have abortions.”

     

     

     

    “No one can make this decision better than you, and you don’t need anyone’s permission. You’re allowed to trust yourself.”

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    “I wrote it to create a comfortable and affirming space for you to sort through your feelings and heal from the wounds inflicted by stigma. I like to think of it as an antidote to shame.”


    Abortions are not only medical procedures, but also often deeply emotional and personal experiences. Time, support, and circumstances have the ability to shape how a person processes their own experiences. This book embraces the different circumstances of abortion, offering a hand of support for anyone– whether they are considering an abortion now, have had one several years ago, or haven’t had one yet. This book creates a safe space to feel all types of emotions and heal themselves, particularly from stigma, without judgment from the world around them.

    You can learn more about this book and snag yourself a copy at Becca Rea-Tucker’s website here.

  5. Kink Engagement Among Youth and Concerns

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    by Danica Soule (they/she), University of Maine Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies student and Mabel Wadsworth Center intern

    Language Disclaimer: In this blog, I will be switching between using choking/strangulation – choking is described as something being stuck in your throat, while strangulation is when someone uses an object or their hands to cut off airflow. However, in both the kink community and in common language, “choking” is often the language used. While accuracy is important, it’s also important to use understandable language. 

    IPV: An acronym for Intimate Partner Violence- Abuse that occurs in a romantic relationship past or present. Abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual, psychological, stalking, financial control,  etc. 

    If you or someone you know is struggling with interpersonal violence, or domestic violence please contact a local help center. 

    To reach Partners for Peace’s domestic abuse helpline, call 1-800-863-9909.

     

    Now, let’s talk about kinks! Kinks are making their way from private underground parties to your misspelling on a Google search. As technology advances within our society, so does the ability to access just about anything you can think of, and one of these things you can think of is sex. A majority of public schools are underfunded, leaving their sexuality education program at the bottom of the barrel. Alongside underfunding, we see schools that teach abstinence-only sex education, shaming the act of sex, or simply not teaching a sexuality education program at all. Let’s keep in mind that a lack of education does not stop teen pregnancy. In fact, we know this to be a precipitating factor in increasing the rate of teen pregnancy. The lack of comprehensive sex ed programs and funding has the youth searching for any information on the topic of sex out on the internet. Unfortunately when it comes to the internet, when you try to find the answers to your questions like “how to kiss girls,” “how to masturbate,” “how to have sex,” or “how to give a blow job,” the first few links are highly unlikely to be trustworthy, science-based sexual health information, but performative porn instead. When it comes to watching porn, the production of the film is for the entertainment and pleasure of viewers, not for educational purposes. However, with our lack of sex ed, and how taboo the topic of sex is in our culture, young folks can feel as though porn will be the best place to get advice. People, especially those with less experience, can be impressionable, and when they have no basis for the topic they are trying to learn about they will take whatever information they can in hopes that it’s correct. 

    In porn, even porn that’s not considered kinky (aka “vanilla”), there are acts of erotic asphyxiation. Erotic asphyxiation involves cutting off air supply on either yourself or your partner, to create a sexual thrill between either giver, receiver, or both.  This is considered strangulation, but is referred to in the kink world as sexual suffocation/choking. Sexual choking can lead to life-threatening circumstances. It’s essential for anyone engaging in this practice to know how to properly communicate boundaries, safe words/actions, proper and safe techniques, along with consent. These are important factors as well when it comes to engaging in any kinks/play with a partner, but especially kinks that can lead to serious and/or fatal injuries.

     

     Anecdotally, educators/counselors are reporting that youth (12-21) report being strangled/choked unexpectedly by their partner. In one case, an educator had 15 and 16 year old girls asking why boys want to choke them during intimacy and boys asking why girls want to be choked. Now, this question from the boys feels simultaneously disingenuous and genuine. On the one hand, as an analogy, most people wouldn’t watch a bunch of movies where women eat spaghetti and assume all women want to eat spaghetti for every meal, let alone that all women even like spaghetti. On the other hand, our society teaches young men and boys that consent and communication around sex are difficult and complicated, and that many sex acts are to be “assumed” as part of sex. Porn is normalizing rough sex and choking/strangulation to the point where some consider this “vanilla” and young people see this as what the other person presumably wants or what they should be wanting. 

     Alongside porn, we see the act of sexual strangulation trending on social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram reels, where teen boys and young men make “thirst traps” imitating sexually choking another person. These “thirst trap” videos that sexualize choking/strangulation normalize the act to the viewers without any other context, like how communication and consent should be involved before attempting a risky kink, the importance of not performing these behaviors in public settings, and the fact that these are kinks! These are not vanilla acts that are standard to engage in during sex–these are kinks that need to be discussed (as, frankly, all sex acts should be). 

    At times, erotic asphyxiation is a disguise for abuse and is NOT being used in a way to bring pleasure to both parties but as a tool of power, control, and violence. Abusers want control over their victims and can disguise their want by using strangulation claiming it’s an act of BDSM to inflict serious pain on their victim. Strangulation is used to instill fear, secure compliance to the abuser, sexual gratification for the abuser, and used to avoid accountability for abusive threatening behavior by avoiding leaving marks. Strangulation is one of the most prominent indicators that abuse in a relationship is escalating to lethal levels and is associated with a “significant predictor of IPV-based homicide”(Mckay). In IPV homicide cases 82% of victims identify with being female, and approximately 15% of these homicides were due to strangulation. Victims who are sexually assaulted by a past or present intimate partner are 8.4x more likely to endure non-fatal frequent strangulation, and the occurrence rate of non-fatal strangulation over the course of a victim’s life can range from 3-68%. Each time a victim survives a non-fatal strangulation, their chances of being a victim to homicide increases.

     Instead of normalizing risky sex acts without consent or communication, we need to normalize conversations. It can be hard to answer these questions, and even harder to hear them be asked, especially as BDSM-play trends around social media. We know porn can be harmful and that it’s easy to shift the blame onto the internet, but we also know that shaming those who lack healthy resources won’t make them stop what they’re doing. Shame leads to guilt, repression, and anger. Fighting against rape culture and the normalization of violence along with removing shame around sex generally allows everyone, especially those with less experience, the space to ask questions, learn, and communicate in healthy ways.